When you complain, you make yourself a victim.
A victim is powerless. A victim has no freedom. A victim cannot, or will not change their circumstances.
Few things kill love faster than a person who constantly complains.
Rather than complain, look for something positive to talk about. Find a way to draw a lesson, or an opportunity out of a negative experience. Use challenging situations to bring you closer together rather than tear you apart.
Here’s your mission for today: Set a goal to go 24 hours without complaining. If you complain, your 24 hours resets. (Laying in bed all day is not an option for completing this challenge.)
Let me know how it goes!
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